just shut up

Tuesday, August 31, 2010,11:05:00 AM

such a small world

God created us all to meet each other whether its a long lasting friendship or what that really depends on how we could tolerate and be the person that you are. Whether acceptable or not acceptable kind of friends that really all depends in the future once met. And it all comes from a package no? u meet friends .. than friends of friends.. than friends of friends of friends and so on.. and some may even end up being "in - a - relationship". In a r/s all start with being friends first thats the thing tat we cant deny else we won't know each other unless its the olden times. You just get married just like that without even seeing each other before or knowing each other before. Another way of saying it, is most likely being forced I guess.

Relationships 1st week you are like so deeply in love same goes to the 2nd.. 3rd .. 4th week.. go on so lovingly till the 3rd MONTH .. honey moon period i guess stays there only 3rd month.. and when comes to the 4th.. 5th half a year.. little arguments keep piling up but knowing u still can't just lose each other... right after hanging for so long.. a year .. two yearss. ... have passss ... than you start to argue over things that are really with high expectations all those jealousy, negative thoughts, trust and all. Being with all this problems what happens when one getting married? what will the issues that time? kids? money ? where is the love already? all this arguments will it increase the love feeling in you or it will just go lesser or it will just be the " I AM SO USED TO IT WITH YOU already" i don't care whether there is love o not.. i just need you by my side... hmmmmmm...

Despite of all these thoughts, I came out to one conclusion. Without fighting, without arguing, without confrontation, you won't know much about your other half. I have so many friends whom have a boyfriend now and all of us have so many issues.. shared and given advise and we also managed to tackle all the ups and downs and now are all loving. For me, I've been thru really alot of course don't compare to those of 5 - 10 years relationship but as for the upcoming 3rd year anni of me and boyfriend . I know we've outgrown again. There are so many stages to be faced to get thru this 3 years TRUST me my friends :) ! You will learn alot alot alot of things especially when both of you're working already. You will know when your at this stage :D SO IRONIC !!!!!!

Life has been not bad so far and though theres ups and downs in between .. theres still a reason for living right? What i've learn is to SMILE no matter what happens. Learn from the past, do better in the future, learn from mistakes too! Anyways, I can't wait for my precious to arrive my house !!!! New license plate no. KA 553 :D and and its hYundai tucson .. gonna be a maroon dull red. not that that pretty BUT i know its going to be awesome. wheee.. can't wait ! and i am going to be tied up with the bank for 7 years. Yet looking at my new car it won't be a problem for me. Sept 1 / 2 will be date for me to get hold of it and drive it. Pictures will be posted up when i get it. wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee :D

Labels: happy girl =)