Typical chinese filipina residing at Brunei Darussalam, currently working as Procurement in a small company!
Nothing special would just want to rant out everything that im not happy about or being happy about.
A happy girl yet can be affected easily so negativity please shoo AWAY from me.
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Days pass by really fast just a glimpse of an eye, it's already going to the Monday blues, which most of us don't really want it to come. But as for the Malaysians, they are having super long weekend as tomorrow is their National Day, hence, public holiday tomorrow. Here, i wish all MALAYSIANS including my family whom are, MERDEKA !! haha damn, i don't know how to greet and I don't know how to sing the national anthem of Malaysia ... I just know it starts off with "NEGARAKU la la la la la lal..." goes on and on .. haha pfft.. what a MALAYSIAN!!
I've been working at Fazrul Co. for ermm ermm.. 9 days already.. tomorrow will be the 10th day.. so far so good.. I kinda learn a few things already. Remembering one day, the Indonesian worker called up and say "Ah Moi, tidak ada BATA sudah, mau order okay?" than i was like Oh okayy~~.. but I DONT FREAKING KNOW WHAT IS BATA !!.... kk.. bata the shoe shop? haha! sighs, so paiseh.. My malay sucks alot okayy.. With the help of Stephanie my colleague, I have learnt it is BRICK ! :( !! Don't laugh at me.... hhehehehehehehhee.. i told my dad about it and he keep saying me born for 21 yrs already so simple thing BATA also don't know. oh my oh my .. but at least I LEARN!! Actually my job/tasks there is more off "procurement" side.. where I have to order order order and keep releasing Purchase order the whole day.. check availability of stock, sort out the price list and talk to fellow Indonesian workers to keep improving my malay. HAHA !!
Went to Kevins' house yesterday at 1030 than we started watching Hangover at around 11pm.. but couldn't finish it up because I've got bad menstruation cramp pass midnight and bf has stomache because his like a hungry monster keep eating before hand.. whatever he see he eat / drink. LOL! What to do right. So we just went home halfway.. Gotta borrow the movie from Kevin Chong soon !! :) Hmm.. my weekend is counted a one relaxing one, dint really get enough of sleep but at least a lot of rest.. was on bed lying down watch series the whole afternoon today so i guess its one of a relaxing one (: -- can't wait for the next long weekend! We have a public holiday next Monday .. whee whee whee..
And I also can't wait for Sep 12 where we are going down to Miri to celebrate Kimfuis' bday and staying at Eastwood, just realizing both Kimfui n I booked 8 longhouse rooms altogether during that night. HA-HA-HA !! WE just talked about it and realizing we two book so fast.. macam kiasu.. but HEY!.. book the earlier the better ma, right right? Oh wells, I will post up pictures here when I get back my lappie.
P/s : wondering, hows' my friends from IBS ?? it seems like quite a while we don't talk or chat with each other. Wish you all the best in life. Till we meet again on OCTOBER 31st. love you guys (:
I love this song a lot because I love the rhythm of the music, the way it is set and so on. I am gonna post this song into my web and feel free to listen to it. The song that I've been listening lately. P/s: Dear, I am always next to you and always be with you!
This morning I woke up remembering certain things about manners, I mean as in basic manners in life. Because I still can't accept people who came in / out of your house without greeting the elderlies inside the freaking house. They can just walk in or walk pass by them without saying hi. Where are your manners? and please pay respect to them. You don't do it at home, it doesn't mean other peoples' place you can repeat the same thing all over and over again. What's worst is, I've heard people like this will go straight to somewhere and just hide there or do own stuffs like own house like that. FUCK THAT man. I have googled *Basic Manners* and it shows 10 basic manners for KIDS and i saw this greeting people are under the kids categories. Feel ashamed? I doubt that.
Here are the 10 BASIC MANNERS FOR KIDS 1. Waiting their turn and not interrupting other people when they are speaking. No one can be heard if there are too many voices at once. Gently tell them to wait until someone is done speaking, and then ask their question. Be sure and give your child your full attention when you are done speaking so as to reinforce the positive behavior of waiting his/her turn. While children are patiently waiting, hold their hand or put your arm around them to let them know you are aware of their presence.
2. No name calling. Even if it's in "fun," name calling hurts. Instead of labels, ask children to explain what the behavior is that bothers them.
3. Always greet someone when they come over to your house. Depending on your level of formality, you can teach your child to shake hands with adults who come over, but it's not necessary to shake hands with other children. However, your child should always say, "hello" or "hi" when someone visits so that the guest feels welcome.
4. Say, "Please" and "Thank you" often. It shows respect and appreciation. In addition, if they are thanked, then say, "You're welcome".
5. Clean up after yourself. Whether at home or at a friend's house, always pick up after yourself. It's their mess, so they need to clean it up. If children leave a mess, then remind them that they need to clean up before the next activity can begin, and stick to it.
6. Good sportsmanship. After playing a game (sports, cards, board game), no matter the outcome, be pleasant. If your child wins, tell him/her to not gloat or show off, but to be kind. If they lose, don't sulk or get mad, but be a good sport and tell the other child(ren) "good game" or speak well of them.
7. Take compliments courteously. If someone praises your children, teach them to be gracious and say, "thank you" and avoid putting themselves down or pointing out flaws.
8. Opening doors for others. When going into buildings, allow elders to go first and open the door for them. When preceding others into a building, don't let the door slam in the face of those behind, but hold the door until the person behind can grab it. Also teach your children that if someone holds the door for them, then remember to say "thank you."
9. Exiting/Entering etiquette. Elevators: allow those in the elevator to exit first before entering the elevator. Same with buildings or rooms - if someone is exiting the building or room through the same door you are entering, let them exit first.
10. Respect differences. When people do things differently from your family because of diversity in culture, race, or religion, then teach your child respect. Point out how interesting it is or how different families do different things. Families have their own traditions or rituals, and it is important and has meaning for that family.
omg! imagine the sportmanship thing is under KIDS category! HELLO!! ADULTS.. can u please read this carefully and ask yourself? DUring basketball games, there are alot of UNSPORTMANSHIP people hanging around all the time... which u can call KIAsU?? HAHAHAHHAHAA>. oops.. if i offended but hey this is my blog, my rights, my privacy so go away!!..And I can't say I am fully perfect in all those 10 basic manners BUT at least I have the manners of greeting people and not interrupting people when talking.. i think these are THE TWO MAIN important things in life. learn it. IF you want people to greet you, DO IT FIRST !!
Another one is the 10 basic manners than men should . LOL !!
Beside your looking and the way you dress, people often make judgment calls by how you speak and how you act. Below are 10 things that men should know about when going out with women. Feel free to add more information by leaving comments.
Car rides: If you are riding together with a woman (in a taxi or your own car), always open her door for her. If she looks uncomfortable or tells you it’s not neccessary, tell her that you are used to it and that you enjoy doing it. Do not be dramatic or make it a big deal, it will make the woman think that you are trying to impress her.
In the lift: Always let the woman get off the lift first, gently hold the lift doors open and offer her to get off. Never walk out the lift and leave the woman behind.
In the restaurant: When approaching to table, ask the woman which side she prefers to be seated, or offer her the side that provides the better view of the restaurant, then gently pull out the chair for her. Never rest your head on your hand with elbow on the table, it is not polite and you will give the woman a feeling that you’re bored (even if you are not). Ask the woman if she would like a dessert after the meal, if she does, order yourself one as well (no matter how much you hate sweet) so that she won’t be having it alone.
Ordering: In bars/ restaurants, it’s nice to ask the woman what she wants, then make the order for her before saying yours to the waiter. Never make choices for her! And don’t try to convince her to drink more.
Splitting bills: As soon as I moved here to Canada, I noticed that it is very common in North American culture that people like to split bills, but when you ask a woman out for a date, never split the bill. Because YOU are the one who invite her out, you should pay for lunch/dinner, movie, drinks or other entertainment.
Fragrance: It is nice to wear perfume when you go out, but don’t overuse it. Spray once on neck and both wrists will be enough.
Smokers: Always light others’ cigerattes first before lighting yours.
In the mall: If you go shopping with a woman, always offer to carry their bags. But please, please, DO NOT carry their purses, it’s just simply not what a man should do, don’t ask me why, I don’t enjoy seeing men carrying their girlfriends’ purses.
Drinking: Remember to give her a toast and say “cheers” before drinking, look into her eyes until you had the first sip. Drink at the same pase as the woman, do not drink way faster than the woman and order another drink while she’s still having the first drink. Try to finish the drink at the same time then ask her if she wants another one, don’t force her.
I kinda get this from other peoples blog! read up!! haha. have a nice day people off to miri for super shopping. hearts :D
"I'll do it tonight because I shy lo :$, I've to act cool (H)so that you won't feel proud :D ma.. I'm so bored here at work :(, feel like kissing you now (K), Miss you till I cry :'(, HEHEHE"
LOL!! super wu liao but it's like a poem so it's all good.
Work today wasn't that bad after all, whole morning photocopying and 4 - 5 inches of papers which makes almost 40 stacks of stapler papers and than highlighting numbers and stuffs. I swear 2nd day of work, I learned like quite much! haha!! Time pass by quite fast today though because of the tripping of electric after 10 minutes or the longest an hour, don't know what's wrong though. It makes people frus about it, especially the drafts men where they forgot to save and it's all gone. wtf right. But oh wells, it's all good after all. Lots of funny things happen and i got my own phone line already. It's time to answer call. BOO!!! my malay sucks till people say saya tidak faham apa kamu cakap. APUH! so paiseh :$
ahhhh.. tomorrow day trip to MIRI for abit shopping. pray we can get down earlier and pray not so much car going down BUT I DOUBT THAT. OH WELLS.......... see ya see ya!!
I thought its' going to be a good day for me or maybe for someone but it turns out to happen differently. I wonder what's with my life sometimes. Anyways, I've got my part-time job for good at Fazrul Company which is the same as the place my boyfriend work but than it will be just a temporary one for me. I don't feel like staying long in a small company, I would like to try a bigger organization. I will work for a few months and hopefully I get good job and better offer in other places and of course, the job that I want to work so I won't get de-motivated. Bein' de-motivated someone sucks and it would really affect the job performance and the capability at work. Wish me good luck as I am going to start this Thursday, they need a part-timer badly!!!!
Life? Black and White? Blue and Black? Today, it seems like black white blue black to me? What I have read from my friend status, he said.. the meaning of "LIFE" is so wide and so many meanings to it; no matter good or bad it still comes under the word LIFE. A four letter word s give so many special meanings and difficulty. Everyone has ups and downs and I am on the downs side now, got fcked up quite badly and argh.. don't feel like repeating it once again. I just can say I can't breathe anymore, I can't breathe any longer. I need to run away from all these and have my own life.. the life that I want.. without much stress without pressure.. but I somehow can't avoid it and I must learn to overcome it somehow.
CBF day I had. (for some who don't understand its Can't Be Fucked) hence, I feel like I am a cinderella today who is being tortured badly by her step mother that process.. I still don't have the part that I get to go meet my prince charming in other places. Back by 12 am? SIGHS! Stucked in the room.. think too much.. STILL no one understands me except maybe my boyfriend and my sister? awww... couldn't be bothered. Tomorrow is another new day for me to face .. Will it be any better? I doubt that.
Overall, the trip to Empire was an awesome one!! We stayed in the Villa #14 (: aww.. We certainly won't forget about this memorable place that we had. And we didn't made so much noise till security has to come over to check on us. I guess the walls are thick enough to prevent noise!.. K, i was overall ABIT tipsy.. not so syok after all. BUT we have something like a truth or dare questions the whole night and throughout the curiosity .. i guess most of it is being answered? haha! but I KNOW there's always curiosity involved. HAHAHAHHA only you guys and gals know what I am talking about :)
The place is amazing.. double storeys with two bedrooms. Master bedroom simply HUGE! super comfy bed and toilet with jacuzzi in it too. I didn't get to take picture of the room and all because I was so excited. hehe paisehpaiseh! Anyways, we start off by taking pictures by the stairs and act like some dramas / series coverpage.. HAHAHAH.. damn, i missed it and we sure do had lots of fun!. Nevertheless, I won't put last night partys' in words so just have a look at all those pictures. and and and THIEN THIEN chicken rice.. DELICIOUS !! we ordered 2 whole chicken.. we finished everything and I would really much appreciate to have another plate of rice. HAHAHA. big eater? and I AM growing fat already.wtf? ITS A GOOD SIGN! wheeee...
pictures pictures gonna post up real soon. hugs and kisses. loves loves loves
2 more days till up to Bandar accompany my boy buy his basketball shoes :)
3 more days till beloved boyfriends' birthday
4 more days till the birthday party for boyfriend and darrell and the biggest bouncer with two slides and two pools :)
4 more days till PRESENTATION DAY!
5 more days till to go Miri with my darling for abit shopping.
I am so HAPPY because I have finished my final exam!
I am so HAPPY because silly boyfriend love what I gave him and what I surprised him!
I am so HAPPY because the bouncer/barbecue party was a success!
I am so HAPPY because I have done my final presentation for DIPLOMA in ADMIN!
hence, i'm overall happy! wuahahhahaha.. but
I have to find a full time job now. I have to share the expenses at home. I have to start to pursue my dreams whenever I can. and I want my family to lead a happy life with not much worries WITH my help :)
overall, I am not stressed n I am still happy! HA-HA other than thinking about those.. i Have been jobless for almost A week already with no academic to worry about just to worry about the working life :D !! I haven't done much this week but just chill and hang out with friends couldn't wait for the ladies night out yesterday... Yesterday, wasn't a perfect one but I know we love the feeling of it being together once again after a year more without meeting each other or maybe even more than that. Awww.. i am so excited to post pictures up after this. And tonight its going to be an overnight EMPIRE NIGHT :D with a group of friends, celebrating Max-doi's birthday.. Drink, Drank, Drunk ??? OR should I say drink and drank only.. don't get drunk. I WANT TO SWIM THE NEXT DAY! .. okay.. I can't wait, I can't wait for all these to happenn.. i will update my blog sooooonnn......
It's time for me to be hardworking for the very last minute of studying and finish up my report. I know I can do it! I have been super uber lazy lately which leads me to finish all these up by last minute but don't worry, I know i can handle all this up. Seeing my best companions now are trying to adapt back the uni life, feel quite good and happy for them. Nevertheless, I can't just laid back also so i have to study real hard for my final exam which is the Labour Law exam and finished up presentation and officially wait for my Graduation Day. and working life ahead. pfffft...
kk. good luck too all IBS College students whom are having exam and whom is going to have their exams soon. Add oil and all the best.
2 more days till final exam of labour law
2 more days till up to Bandar accompany my boy buy his basketball shoes :)
3 more days till beloved boyfriends' birthday
4 more days till the birthday party for boyfriend and darrell and the biggest bouncer with two slides and two pools :)
4 more days till PRESENTATION DAY!
5 more days till to go Miri with my darling for abit shopping.
do you prefer straight or curly hair on guys? - any will do as long as they look good on any can already.
long or short? - short for guys =)
how do you react when strangers randomly say hello to you? - depends what race? haha damn.. im racist in this way. no no!
when did you last cry? - few days ago?
why? - some prob and series. HAHA
is there anybody you think is cute? - babies are cute
boy or girl? - any
..and who is this person? - babiesss
when's the last time you went out of town? - last June :)
where'd you go? - KK!!!
for what? - visit relatives + pulau manukan RELAX :)
what's your main goal in life? - healthy and successful. able to get what i want in life :)
what do you think you need to do to achieve that goal? - work hard, strive for it and must be happy !
one random fact about you? - super lazy
have you ever been involved in soccer? - yes but just for fun like beach soccer
any other sports? what are they? - basketball .. badminton.. swimming .. netball..
would you ever want to be famous? - nope, i don't want
do you like your dads friends? - They are just fine as they are. As long as they don't simply talk bad things behind :)
name the last 3 that you saw? - sister, mommy and <3>
do you feel comfortable singing in front of a crowd? - alright with it
how does your closet look? - super messy
how long, on average, does it take you to get ready? - 1/2 hr the max
do you like hot or cold weather better? - right in the middle
does it bother you when people incorrectly spell simple words? - nope
when you text do you use the whole word or short form? - sometimes whole sometimes short so actually it depends
one thing you refuse to eat? - BITTER GOURD or something raw
the last time you went shopping? - that day at Bandar with cousins and sisters
do you have a good memory? - I have
where were you last night? - @ home
how long were you there? - the whole night? haha
can you name every person that was there? - my family .
do you like fishing? - not really
when's the last time you went to the lake? - don't know
what are you doing this weekend? are you excited? - bbq bouncer bday party of my boy and darrell and presentation day! wish me luck
do you wake up a lot during the night? - nope, i will just sleep thru the night . piggg
have you ever used bing.com? - naaaah
are your eyes the same color as your dad's? - i think so
how many pairs of high heels do you own? - a few
don't you hate it when people stare? - YES ! no manners
when's the last time you saw somebody staring at somebody hardcore? - no idea
what tattoos do you have/want? - heart-shaped
have you ever gone to warped tour? - nope
screamo - or - rap? - nah
have you ever had acrylic nails on? - nope..
how many pairs of shoes do you own? - a few too
if you could have just one wish, what would it be? - to have alot of holidays more than work but still earn alot of money. LOLS
do you like mayonnaise? - its okay for me.
can you sleep with the lights on? - unless I am super tired or exhausted
are you usually on time wherever you go? - not really
are you afraid of the dark? - nopes, i love sleeping in the dark.
the last black truck that you remember seeing, who's was it? - no black truck
do you like pizza? - yes i do especially honey garlic chicken pizza toppings ! (:
what do you like on it? - honey garlic chicken and hawaiian chicken
what was the last movie commercial you saw? - i have no idea
is the current color of your hair the natural color? - no, dyed one
your favorite television show? - no favourites but just to pass some time :D
last band you saw live? - live band at Edgars. all RnB at KK! =)
when's the last time you fell asleep anywhere besides a bed? - inside the car i suppose
who did you last text? - my boyfriend <3
have you ever wanted to be a truck driver? - being a truck driver at Canada earn alot of money!
have you ever wondered if animals have dreams? - LOLS. nope
have you ever bleached your hair? - no, spoils hair
what do you hear right now? - tv adverts
would you ever get your tongue pierced? - nope. im scared haha
your ears gauged? - nopes
have you ever had to write a biography about a famous person? who was it? - nopes
what's your name spelled backwards? - eel
have you ever licked a 9 volt battery? - nope
do you know all the words to your favorite song? - yes, that's what u call favorite ?
did you ever have to wear a uniform to school? - yeaaaa
3 things that you're looking forward to in the next 3 months? - our anni and ermm.. new job ? another stage of my life. HOLidAys.. vacation
would you prefer being a millionaire or finding true love? - i be greedy i want both
have you ever had one of those days where you just wanted to cry? - yeaaa
do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend? - YUPS!
what color is your digital camera? - metallic silvery golden
have you ever seen the saw movies? - Yes
do you cry during those really cute but sad movies? - yea
what do you want to be when you get older? - anything related to business
how's your hair right now? - down
do you know anybody that's a diabetic? - yes my aunt
are you scared to grow up? - yes i do
are you sarcastic? - when you are to me, i will to you.
have you ever worn lipstick? - nopes
do you wear jewelry often? - sometimes only
do you smile with your teeth showing? - sometimes
Do you like lemons? - okok la
Do you want to slap anyone right now? - nopes
Are you a homosapien? - NO!
If not, what are you O_o? - I am a growing lady
Do you wear glasses? - nopes
What's your name? - Thien lee
Thats FANTASTIC! Do you like rain? - I LOVE IT :D
Lightning :D? - lightining is better than the thundering
What about midgets? Do you like them? - no
Why or why not? - no reason
Do you like WWE or TNA? - No. fake thing
If you could sleep with anyone in the world who would it be? - my dearly dearly bf
Do you like the color orange? - just fine with it
Do you have a dog? - yes so many!
If so, what's their name? - keltal, michelle, fido, dido, joker, pui pui .. MANY right
Is your hair rainbow colored like mine!? :D - no ???
Would you ever sleep with Hugh Heffner if you get 1 million dollars after? - nooo
What about about a 500lb guy or girl? But this time for 5 million! - not for money please. no way
Would you consider losing 150lbs? - i dont think need to
Don't you just hate emo kids? - nah, they don't irritate me can already
What kind of phone do you have? - w900i and w910i
Do you do a lot of surveys? - when im bored yes
Do your friends get mad at you for stupid reasons? - nahhh
Do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend? - yes i do
You plan on marrying them one day? - hope so
If your a guy: Would you ever get her pregnant? - when married
If your boyfriend or girlfriend left you, what would you do? - I will fly to places that I want to go to than settle down to work abroad or study abroad!
What's your favorite balloon animal? - I have no idea
Are you wearing any clothes? - of course
What channel is your TV on? - A E C
Was this an okay survey? - it's just alright to pass my time.